People have asked me where I go to get my “eyebrows done”. I’m like,
“Huh? My house, where else would I go?”
“What salon do you go to, to shape and wax your eyebrows?”
“I do them myself. Why would I go out of my way to have someone pour hot wax on my face, then peel skin and hair off of it?”
Women flock to salons to pay for what might be defined as torture in the Geneva convention if it were conducted on men, while prisoners of war. I would make a horrible advocate for aesthetics because I think it’s faster (include travel/wait time), and cheaper to perform these services myself. The other benefit would be for you to get to understand your own face, and know what YOU like. How are women supposed to feel confident about themselves if they rely on othle to make them “beautiful”. If you can’t accept your own eyebrows, how can you accept the rest of yourself? I struggled with self-confidence for years. I am my own worst critic when it comes to everything I do. Part of my self discovery began with looking in the mirror and not liking what I saw. I never liked my eyebrows. When I was a teenager, I thought my eyebrows were too bushy. When I was bored, I would sometimes pinch and pull out a batch of eyebrow hairs with my fingers. I would pluck every visible hair from my eyelid with tweezers. Fast forward 20 years and now I feel like my eyebrows are too thin and sparse. Go figure. It turns out I should have paid more attention to “shaping” my eyebrows. If I had my time back, I would have trimmed my brows first, and tweezed second. I found a great video about shaping your eyebrows by Katie, a makeup artist who I have grown to love.
As usual, I take advise and think of easier ways (for me) to accomplish the task since I do not have the steady hand or practice of a makeup artist. As a beginner I prefer step-by-step instructions with pictures. So this blog is more for my own personal preference than anyone else’s. Things you’ll need:
- Tape (the not so sticky kind that will pull your skin off
- Eyeliner/brow pencil for drawing the stencil.
- Eyelash/eyebrow comb. I use Tweezerman’s eyelash comb.
- Tweezers. I prefer angled tweezers. Whatever works.
- If you don’t have all day to tweeze, use an eyebrow razor.
- Cuticle scissors
Cuticle scissors have a curved tip so you can avoid accidentally stabbing and piercing your skin. I happened to have one in a manicure set, but I never used it for it’s intended purpose. You can get facial hair scissors if you don’t have cuticle scissors handy.
Step 1: Mark points for the start, arch and end of your brows with the tape as your guide from your nose. Follow the corner of your nose, the inside corner of your eye, and draw a line with the pencil. For the arch, trace the tape from the corner of your nose, to the outside of your pupil. Your eyebrows should end from the corner of your nose, to the outside corner of your eye. This may already be the case naturally.
What you’re left with is this sexy looking template that will guide you through the hair removing process. Don’t worry, you’ll only look like Frieda Kahlo temporarily. I would advise doing this in private at first. I use a Q-tip to clean up any smudges.
They do make eyebrow stencils, but they’re more for applying powder. I don’t see how applying a different glamorous or classy stencil depending on your mood would look good. If you have hair growing beyond the stencil, and what you have drawn in, wouldn’t that make you look like a clown? We all have different shaped noses, eyes and faces. By following Katie’s instructions, you will create eyebrows that suit YOUR stencil for YOUR face.
Step 3: Always trim before you pluck! Take it from me, a real mother-plucker, if I could give my younger self some advise, it would be to put the tweezers down and watch Katie’s video! With the eyelash comb, I push what’s left of my sparse eyebrows DOWN. The hairs that fall below my stencil line, I trim to the line.
Step 4: Now you can pluck outside of the lines. I usually tweeze the rogue hairs above my eyelids, and in between my brows. The baby hairs on the top of my brow I use the razor, and in between the brows for good measure.
Step 5: Wash off your stencil and comb your hairs to the sides. Marvel at your handy work. If you have some pesky hairs that won’t stay put due to their new trim, try an eyebrow gel, or clear mascara. I picked up Sonia Kashuk’s Brow Gel from Target when I was in the U.S. because it wasn’t expensive, and I also happened to have a coupon so it was a deal I couldn’t pass up. When Target comes to Canada I have a feeling we won’t benefit from these coupons. Sonia Kashuk‘s line of cosmetics and brushes are exclusive to Target, so I hope her stuff, along with E.L.F. products are part of the northern migration deal.
Now, if you have been tweezer happy like, me and have sparse eyebrows you definitely need to fill them in. In the hot sweaty and humid days I use Anastasia’s brow pen in Universal Light for blonde to light brown hair. You’d think I would go for the Universal Dark for dark brown to black hair, BUT because my eyebrows are so thin and sparse I would have to go lighter to avoid looking like a freaky Frieda. (Frieda was an artist so it was OK for her to have bold features.) Sephora has testers giving you the luxury of trying before buying.
In the drier months I use Anastasia’s brow powder duo in Ebony. Knowing what I know now, you may as well save a few bucks and use a matte eye shadow that’s a few shades lighter than your natural hair colour. What I paid for was the pretty, compact. The mirror is barely big enough for your full eye. This duo does allow me to customize the shade I need as my tan starts to fade from fall to winter. I apply this powder after I moisturize my face so that the powder has a base to stick to. I use the lighter shade at the beginning of my brow, and use the darker one to define the thinner line. (Picture coming soon …)
The reason why I don’t have your typical plastic eyelash comb/eyebrow brush combo is because I ALWAYS manage to break the stupid tines off the eyelash comb. It looks as dumb as someone who’s missing front teeth. It looks so out of place with my other pretty brushes – I hate it. When I found the folding, Tweezerman one with metal tines at Sally’s I HAD to have it. I always had to keep the brush though cause I found that the stiff bristles helped to smudge and blend the powder in. On a U.S. trip to the Premium Oulet Mall, I stopped into the Cosmetics Company Store. It’s a store that I had passed by so many times because I never wore makeup. I didn’t know how. This time I went in with a purpose … for the perfect eyebrow brush. The brow brush that I got from Sephora eyebrow brush was alright for applying the powder, but the bristles were too soft for my liking. The cashier at the CCS asked me if I was looking for anything in particular. She recommended Estée Lauder’s 12E Brow brush.
She said she’s had it for a while, and the brushes are so stiff, it’ll last forever. In my head I’m thinking, “Sure, tell me something I haven’t heard. I’ll be the judge.” I can’t remember exactly what I paid for it, but it was definitely under $20. When she brought me towards the Estée Lauder section I thought she was gonna take me for a ride. That was over a year ago and I admit that it IS my perfect brush and I have no intention of ever replacing. It has firm bristles like an eyebrow brush so it does double duty as a power applicator, as well as combs the hair as I go.
Update: I have tried brushing on some Castor Oil on my brows to try and increase hair production. Crazy as it sounds, it actually works. My brows have been filling in nicely, but I’m starting to look like Frieda so I’ll have to take some pics as evidence before I take my own grooming advice.
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